In “Ten Steps To An Ideal Relationship” I note that Step 5 is about maintaining personal honesty as one of your highest priorities.
If you are honest with yourself and with others you will always maintain your personal integrity, self esteem, and self worth and in spite of what ever happens you will feel more resilient. This will also attract individuals who also uphold this as an important value.
So what do I mean when I say “personal honesty”?
Well pure and simple it means being aware of your own inner truth and living it always in spite of whatever tries to pull you away from it.
Now this is more difficult than some might think for a number of reasons.
Your “inner truth” represents “what is right for you”. Living your inner truth means “doing what is right for you”.
You see the first thoughts that likely came up for you were:
1. Well that sounds selfish, or,
2. That’s impossible, or,
3. That’s scary, or,
4. That’s going to get me into a great deal of trouble, or,
5. That’s going to make me appear like a cold hearted human being, and so on.
Well that’s not even the beginning of the problem.
You see most people have become so conditioned to suppress what is right for them that they don’t even know where it lives inside of them.
Hence if I asked someone whether “doing what’s right for them” is the “right thing for them” they wouldn’t even know how to answer that question. I’m sure you probably had this difficulty in step one above.
So let me put it the other way: When is doing something that “isn’t right for you right for you”?
Sounds like a bit of a paradox doesn’t it? Well it does because it is.
You see “doing something that is not right for you is NEVER right for you”!
Yet individuals in relationships are repeatedly surrendering their rights to the internal beliefs that they have been conditioned with i.e. the list I began to make above.
Why does this happen Well because when you were a child you were “imprinted” with all of these negative beliefs and they are still inside of you running your life.
So what impact do you think that is going to have on your relationship success?
If you get the picture and would like some support so you can free yourself to do what is right and therefore maintain a personal level of honesty, integrity and self esteem visit the web link below.
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While there are many things that make a successful web address,there are certain attributes that all successful web addresses share.
They are:
First, they are short and simple. Shorter is always better. Short web addresses are easier to remember and reduce the possibility of typing errors that can trip up potential visitors.
Second, they are descriptive. Your web address should be a preview of what visitors will encounter when they visit. Your name, in itself, may not provide enough of a clue to your web site’s contents to entice visitors to drop in.
Third, it should be memorable. The very best URL’s combine simplicity and description with an unique element-often a play on words-that helps potential visitors remember your web site address hours, days, or even months after they first encounter it.
As a result, a successful web address often requires more thought and creativity than immediately obvious. Your first instinct, usually to name your URL after your name or your firm’s name, may not-in the long run-be the best choice.
So how does your present or proposed URL measure up:
Is it Short. Is your URL as short and easy to type as possible?
Is it Descriptive. Does your URL do a good job of describing the content visitors will find when they visit?
Is it Memorable. Is your URL easy to remember, even if your name or your firm’s name isn’t? Is it distinctive or humorous?
Remember, the better your business name, the easier it will be to choose an URL. Like good business names, effective URLs are short, descriptive and memorable.
Here are some other aspects of URLs to bear in mind:
Do your preliminary research, and make sure the URL you want to use is not already taken. Although not a foolproof method of seeing whether or not a web site address has already been taken,you can do a preliminary search by simply typing in a desired web site address and see if the domain name has already been taken. This can help you weed out web site addresses already taken without paying a search firm to do the first round of searches.
With all the companies and individuals getting on the web today, before you concern yourself with the details of web design, content and production, you should firm up a short, descriptive and memorable web site address as early as possible, and get your name first before you do anything else.
This is not for everyone, but you might build your URL around specific products, events or your location. Perhaps you want your business to be known as the best source for a particularly well-known product or service in a given area.
Last, but not least is be sure you support your web site address throughout all of your marketing materials and advertising. Your ads, brochures, business cards, letterhead and newsletters should all prominently feature your web address. The more exposure your URL gets, the greater the number of visits, especially if your address is short, descriptive and memorable.
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